Anal orgasm: truth or myth

Anal sex is still surrounded by myths. One of the most persistent is that anal orgasms only happen to men. That a woman cannot cum from penetration into the anus. That it might be pleasant to her, but nothing more.

It is not true.

Women can have orgasms from anal sex. And some describe it as deeper and more intense than vaginal. But there is a caveat. This orgasm is not magic. This is the result of proper technique, preparation, and approach.

Why anal orgasm is possible

It's all about the anatomy. The posterior wall of the vagina and the anterior wall of the rectum are separated by a thin septum. When the penis enters the anus, it presses against this wall, stimulating the G-spot and the cervix on the other side. In addition, there are many nerve endings in the anus area, which, if properly stimulated, can give very vivid sensations.

Also, during anal sex, the pelvic floor muscles are actively involved. Their contraction increases during orgasm, and some women describe anal orgasm as "deeper, undulating, spreading throughout the body."

But there is an important condition here: She must want this. She must be aroused. She should be relaxed and ready. Without this, no anatomy is enough.

Preparation is the key moment

Anal sex without preparation is almost guaranteed to hurt. Especially if a man tries to enter immediately, without lubrication, without fingers, without addiction.

Proper preparation looks like this:

1. Enema or toilet. An hour before the meeting, it is advisable to empty the intestines. You can use microclysters — it's fast and clean.
2. Lubrication. A lot. More than you think. Anal sex without lube is an injury. Silicone grease is better than water-based, it does not dry out longer.
3. Fingers first. One finger is lubricated, slowly, in a circular motion. Then two. She needs to get used to the feeling.
4. Slow penetration. Don't "log in to the end". Enter the tip. To wait. Let her exhale. Go a little deeper. Wait again.

It takes 5-10 minutes. It hurts without it. It's nice to be with that.

Poses for anal orgasm

The best positions to achieve anal orgasm are those where a woman can relax and control the process.

· On the side (spoons). The most comfortable position for beginners. The man is from behind, the penis enters at a natural angle, the woman can adjust the depth.
· From above (the rider). She sits down by herself, adjusts the depth and tempo by herself. Allows her to feel in control.
· Doggy style. It's deep, but the angle should be comfortable. It is important not to hunch over or pinch yourself.
· Missionary with legs on shoulders. The penis enters at an angle, stimulating the front wall of the vagina through the rectum.

How to help her cum from anal

Anal orgasm is not about "getting in and pushing." It's about complex stimulation.

· Stimulate the clitoris. A hand, a toy, her hand. Anal orgasm almost always requires additional stimulation.
· Breathe with her. It helps to relax.
· Speak up. Whisper in her ear, praise her. This removes the psychological barrier.
· Take your time. Anal orgasm often comes later than vaginal orgasm. But it's longer.
· Find her corner. Every woman feels differently. Try to change the depth, angle, rhythm. Ask, "Is that better?"

Why can't everyone do it

Anal orgasm has no guarantee. Some women always have it. For some, never. It depends on the anatomy, sensitivity, mood, and level of trust. If it didn't work out, it doesn't mean that you did something wrong. This means that today is not the day.

The main conclusion

Anal orgasm is a reality. But it's not an automaton. This is the result of attention, preparation, and honest dialogue. If a woman wants to, try it. If she doesn't want to, don't insist. And then anal sex will become not a "sick" topic, but a new level of intimacy.

Remember: the most sensitive organ in anal sex is not the anus. It's her head. If she is relaxed and trusting, an orgasm is possible. If she's clamped down and afraid, he won't be there. Everything is simple.