How to go deep so that it feels good, not painful

How to go deep so that it feels good, not painful

Deep penetration is something that many men want and that many women are afraid of. Men want to feel that they are completely inside, that they have reached the very bottom. Women are afraid of pain, a feeling of "shock" and discomfort.

But deep down, it doesn't hurt if you do it right. And it's incredibly enjoyable if you know a few simple rules.

Why does it hurt deeply?

The most common mistake is to enter at a right angle. When a man pushes straight forward, the penis hits the cervix. It can be very unpleasant, even painful. The cervix is sensitive. You can't "break through" it, and you don't have to try.

The second mistake is to enter too quickly. No lubrication, no warming up, no getting used to. The vagina is a muscle. She should relax before taking a deep shower. If a woman is tense, a deep entrance is painful and scary. Even if she wants to.

The right angle is half the success

The most comfortable angle for deep entry is when a woman is lying on her stomach or on her side. In these poses, the vagina straightens up, and the penis slides not directly into the neck, but along its wall. A missionary position with raised legs also works if you put a pillow under your pelvis and turn your hips slightly.

Doggy style is a good pose, but it's important not to hunch over here. If a woman bends strongly in her back, the angle becomes too sharp, and the entrance may be painful. It is better that she stands straight or even slightly rounds her back — then the penis enters at a more comfortable angle.

The depth increases gradually

Never go into full depth on the first push. Enter a third of the length. Wait. Let the woman get used to it. Come in halfway. Look at her breathing. Go deeper, but slowly. Stop for a second if she freezes.

Many women describe the ideal entry as "slow filling." When the penis enters not with a push, but smoothly, with a pause at every third of the length. This allows the muscles to relax and take in depth without strain.

Lubrication solves everything

Even if the woman is wet, the deep entrance requires additional lubrication. Especially in the rear poses. Apply some lubricant to the penis and the entrance to the vagina. It's not "because it's dry." This is because deep is demanding of friction. And it's better to over-lubricate than under-lubricate.

Rhythm and amplitude

A deep entrance doesn't mean you have to push all the way in every time. You can alternate between several shallow thrusts and one deep one, almost to the end. It teases, warms up and gives a feeling of depth without constant pressure on the neck.

When the woman has already relaxed and got used to it, you can increase the amplitude. But even then, you shouldn't go into full depth with every move. Give her a break. Let her guide your pelvis if she wants to go deeper.

Breathing and voice

The most accurate indicator of what makes her feel good is her breathing. If she exhales louder than she inhales, she relaxes. If she holds her breath or starts breathing superficially, something is wrong. Slow down the depth or slow down the pace.

If she moans softly, but with a gasp, continue in the same spirit. If she says "deeper," she's ready. If she says "stop" or "slow down" — listen.

Poses for maximum depth without pain

· Doggy style with a rounded back (it does not bend, but arches).
· Side position (spoons) — the penis enters at an angle, comfortable for both.
· The woman on top (the rider) — she controls the depth and angle herself.
· Missionary with legs on a man's shoulders — but only with a pillow under the pelvis and not too fast.

What can not be done

· Do not enter to the end if she is tense. Wait until your muscles relax.
· Do not push if she moves her pelvis away. This is a "painful" signal.
 Don't speed up if she's quiet. Maybe she's coming or close to it.
· Do not ignore the words "slower", "wrong", "stop".

The main conclusion

Deep is nice when it's gentle and prepared. It's about trust, about feeling, about paying attention to her body. If you want to go deep, go in slowly. Give her time to get used to it. Add some lube. Listen to the breathing.And then you will feel how it opens up towards you, and the entrance becomes not just deep, but perfect.

Because the most enjoyable deep penetration is not the one that hit the neck. And the one that filled her without pain.