How to make cunnilingus so that she comes in 5 minutes — instructions for beginners

Cunnilingus is an art. And unlike penetration, where a lot depends on physiology, here the technique solves almost everything. Many men are afraid to do this. Others do it, but wrongly: too fast, too rough, the wrong way. And then they wonder why the woman "doesn't cum from a blowjob."

The good news is that kuni can be mastered. And even a beginner who has never tried it can bring a woman to orgasm in 5-7 minutes if he follows simple rules. Let's take them step by step.

Step 1. Create the right atmosphere

Never start cunnilingus without setting it up first. The woman should already be aroused. Not dry, not in my head about work, not in tension. Spend 5-10 minutes kissing, stroking, caressing hands, neck, chest. Let her close her eyes. Let her breathing become deeper.

If she is tense, no language will help. Arousal starts in the head, not between the legs.

Step 2. Take the right pose

A woman should lie comfortably. The best option is to lie on your back with a pillow under your hips or under your head, legs bent at the knees and spread apart. You lie down between her legs. So you have access to everything, and you don't get tired.

If a woman is shy, you can start with a pose where she sits on the edge of the bed and you kneel in front of her. But the basic option is the classic one, between the spread thighs.

Step 3. Find the right place

The clitoris is located under the upper junction of the labia minora. In a non-aroused state, he is covered with a hood. When a woman is turned on, the clitoris swells and shows. Your goal is to work on it.

Beginner's mistake: licking "everything in a row" or thrusting your tongue inside the vagina. Yes, some women like it when the tongue slides over the entrance. But the main pleasure center is the clitoris. Start with him, concentrate on him.

Step 4. Choose the right movements

The most effective techniques for beginners:

· Circular movements with the tip of the tongue. Slowly, without fanaticism. Circle the clitoris, changing the radius and pressure.
· Up and down movements. The tongue slides along the clitoris from the base to the tip and back. The rhythm is average.
· Gentle sucking. Gently pull the clitoris into your mouth and massage with your tongue from below. This is for those who have already mastered the base.

What doesn't work: rapid, chaotic tongue twitches, too much pressure from the first seconds, attempts to simulate a drill.

Step 5. Listen and Watch

The most important part of cuni is feedback. A woman will not be able to shout "over here, hurry up, don't stop" if she is uncomfortable. But her body will tell you everything.:

· Your breathing gets short and shaky, so keep going at the same pace.
· The hips begin to move towards the tongue — accelerate or increase the pressure.
· A hand pulls at your hair, which means it's close. Don't you dare stop.
· The woman froze and became quiet — don't think she's bored. Maybe she's coming right now.

Step 6. Control the pressure

The clitoris is very sensitive. It hurts too much. Too weak is boring. The golden mean: the tongue is relaxed, but not sluggish. Imagine that you're licking honey off a spoon. The same gentle but palpable pressure.

If a woman pushes her pelvis away, you're too rude. If it's coming, it's just right.

Step 7. Don't forget about pauses and changing techniques

Monotonous movements are tiring. After a minute or two, change direction or speed. Pause, run your tongue from the clitoris down, circle around the entrance, then return to the clitoris. Such distractions enhance orgasm, because the brain does not have time to get used to it.

Step 8. When it's close, don't change anything.

The most common mistake: when a woman says "don't stop," the man gets scared and either speeds up or changes his technique. No need. Acceleration can knock down her wave. Keep doing the same thing, with the same speed and the same pressure. That's how she'll end up.

Step 9. After orgasm, don't come off right away

Women often become very sensitive after clitoral orgasm. Don't pull away abruptly. Just stop your tongue, put your head on her hip, stroke her with your hand. After a minute, you can lightly swipe your tongue — if it twitches, then that's enough.

Step 10. Don't ask for a bounty for it — it's not a favor for which she has to work off a blowjob. Do it because you want to please her. If you're good, she'll want to make you feel good in return. But don't demand it.

What can not be done

· Breathing through your nose directly onto your clitoris is unpleasant and cold.
· Use your teeth (even accidentally).
· Ask every 20 seconds, "Are you coming?"
 Doing cunnilingus if a woman didn't have a shower is not hygienic and disrespectful.
 Stop halfway because your tongue is tired.

The main conclusion

Cuni is not magic. It's technique, attention, and patience. Five minutes of correct movements work better than half an hour of chaotic attempts. Find the clitoris, choose circular or vertical movements, listen to the breathing, do not change the pace before orgasm. And most importantly, enjoy yourself. When you're next to her most sensitive spot, when she moans and pulls your hair, it's a thrill no less than penetration.

Practice it. Ask after: "Was it good for you? And where is better?" Women love men who want to learn.

And then your tongue will become the main weapon in bed. No kidding.