What are we looking for in a partner?

2026-06-08

What are we looking for in a partner? An old psychological experiment asked this question head-on. Choose the main thing: appearance, voice, smoothness of skin ... or smell? The women almost unanimously answered: the smell. Men, on the other hand, rested on appearance. But here's the paradox: when it comes to real contact, it's the sense of smell that often takes precedence over vision. Don't you believe it? Check it out for yourself.

The smell is not just a pleasant addition. It's a portal. With it, you can switch reality in a second and launch the game. Here are some ready-made scenarios:

 "A stranger." Blindfold your partner, come up from behind with a new, never-used fragrance. That's it — he loses his bearings and feels a strange woman.

 "Teacher and student." The smell of a new diary, fresh notebooks, school chalk — and you are no longer in the bedroom, but after lessons.

 "The Sultan's concubine." Oriental spices, spicy plumes — and the room turns into the chambers of a harem.

 "A call girl." A cheap, harsh deodorant, slightly vulgar — instantly creates the desired image without words.

 "Medfetish". Valerian, calendula tincture, alcohol, or just the smell of a home medicine cabinet — and now you are a "nurse" and a "patient."

 "Barbie." Chewing gum, candy sweets, sugary flowers — the image of a doll or a naive girl is ready.

 A "hot courier" (or a depraved housewife). The smell of pizza, hot food, and the game is transferred to the kitchen. You can not only inhale there, but also taste it.

 And incense sticks or candles are not a role, but a ritual. They erase the previous scenario and set it up for foreplay.

The most exciting notes for sex are jasmine, ginger, amber, vanilla, sandalwood. And if you want to repeat sex twice in one evening, just change the fragrance in the room. A new smell resets the settings and causes the nervous system to become overexcited.

My favorite scent? Amber. Warm, animal, marine. The one that makes your eyes go dark.

The main thing here is not a list of rules, but attention to each other. Understand your desires, learn other people's tastes, do what really turns you on. This is adult, warm, honest intimacy.
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To understand your desires, to know the tastes of others, to do what you like — all this helps to get pleasure and joy from physical intimacy.

FrauM exposes us — by taking off our clothes, we expose our innermost secrets. On the website, you can select a girl in the PROFILE section that matches your preferences in terms of current photos, descriptions, and other parameters.

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