How to speed up a woman's orgasm
Female orgasm is a topic that has long been surrounded by dozens of myths and prejudices. Many of them negatively affect sexual life (primarily for the girls themselves), because they give completely wrong ideas about the nature of arousal, as well as the physiology of the representatives of the beautiful half of humanity.
In order to dispel popular misconceptions about the female orgasm, we tried to figure out how to cum quickly for a girl, and what both partners need to do for this.
How can a man create the conditions for a quick orgasm of his partner
One of the features of the female orgasm is that it largely depends on the partner and his actions. And it's not just about choosing sexual positions or preliminary caresses from a man. It is equally important to prepare comfortable conditions that can ignite a loved one no less than the process itself. We have collected some tips that will help you prepare the right "springboard" for sex with a bright ending for your beloved.
1. Make sure that your body is perfectly clean.
Nothing prevents a girl from focusing on her own pleasure more than an unpleasant smell and problems with the cleanliness of her partner's body.
2 Even if you are not a romantic, try to surprise your beloved with spectacular foreplay.
Candles, pleasant music, a warm bath, and a relaxing massage are what excites many women and sets them up for the right wave to achieve orgasm. Let's emphasize: many, but not all.
3 Experiment with natural aphrodisiacs, such as stimulating aromatherapy oils.
They promote the rapid release of the hormone of love and tenderness oxytocin, as well as endorphins, which are responsible for pleasure and euphoria. In particular, you can try natural essential oils of myrrh, patchouli, clove, sandalwood, bergamot. At the same time, it is important not to overdo it, because using any essential oil in high concentrations can not only lead to the opposite effect, but also cause allergic reactions.
4 Stock up on high-quality lubricant
Its use during sex helps to bring and enhance the happy ending, even for those ladies who usually do not have problems with natural lubrication during intercourse.
What prevents you from approaching a female orgasm: the most common mistakes men make:
1 Excessively deep penetration
Some men tend to get into the vagina faster and deeper, forgetting that it can be unpleasant and even very painful for their partner. It is important to know that most of the nerve endings are located at the G-spot (3-5 centimeters from the entrance to the vagina). In turn, in the depth of the vagina, their number will be minimal. In addition, many women experience extremely unpleasant sensations when pressure is applied to the cervix.
2 Frequent change of poses
Girls need a lot more time than men to tune in to the right wavelength. Accordingly, changing your position every 3-5 minutes will simply prevent your partner from focusing on your feelings. Attempts to surprise your beloved with overly complicated poses will not be the best solution. As a rule, they do not contribute to the rapid sexual discharge of a woman, distracting her with inconvenience or complex technique of execution.
3 Lack of sensitivity and attention
Men who focus exclusively on their pleasure during sex are rarely able to please their partner. However, this is a double-edged sword. Excessive obsession with a woman's orgasm may also play a bad role in achieving it.
4 Monotonous pace
Sluggish sex at a steady pace not only does not excite most girls, but also takes their thoughts away from the intimate process – sometimes to the most unexpected topics. Sexologists recommend starting at a leisurely pace, gradually increasing it.
How to speed up a woman's orgasm: three practical tips:
1 Take care of the right mindset
It is a well-known fact that the female orgasm begins in the head. At the same time, it has a number of fundamental differences from the male one. While discharge in a man can occur simply due to blood flow to the genitals, in a woman, much more complex mechanisms are involved in this process. Including feelings and emotions. For this reason, it is important to pay maximum attention to the psychological attitude of the partner. Listen to the feelings of your beloved girlfriend or wife – this is the best way to bring the desired moment of climax closer. In particular, one of the conditions for a woman to achieve orgasm quickly will be high-quality foreplay before sex.
2 Pay maximum attention to her clitoris
The only function of this organ in women is to obtain sexual pleasure. The clitoris plays a much more important role in arousal and orgasm than the vagina. Accordingly, clitoral finger stimulation and/or oral caresses will help bring your partner to sexual climax as quickly as possible.
It is important to remember that the clitoris has about 8000 nerve endings on its surface (for comparison, the glans penis has only 4000). You need to influence him as easily and carefully as possible, while focusing on the reactions and feedback from your partner. Another "strategy" for approaching female orgasm is simultaneous stimulation of the clitoris and G spot. At the same time, it must be remembered that each case is different, and such intimate moments must necessarily be discussed together (preferably before sex).
3 Find "your" poses
Most women can only have orgasms during penetrative sex in certain positions. For this reason, it is very important for a couple to experiment from the very beginning of their sexual life together in order to choose suitable poses that increase the chances of a successful completion of the intimate process for their partners.
Despite the fact that this is a very individual moment, there are several positions that can bring an orgasm closer and make it more vivid purely because of female physiology. In particular, these include the "horsewoman" pose (forward and reverse), the "doggy style", and the "bridge" (the man is on his knees, the woman is lying with her pelvis raised). The most popular sexual position, in which the largest number of women reach orgasm, was and remains the well-known "missionary" position.
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