A special sexual technique is FINGERING
What is fingering? This is a special sexual technique. Only the fingers are involved in it. Such sexual practice can be either a prelude to a regular sexual act, or an independent type of sex. This includes both gentle pressure and stroking of erogenous zones with the pads of your fingers, as well as "exploring the inner world." Fingering is good because it makes it almost impossible to get pregnant, and it also has an extremely low risk of transmission of sexual infections. It also allows you to explore your partner's body. Not everyone likes fingerings — this is normal.
For those who don't mind trying this practice, let's see what you should know about it.Continuous and slow movements are the key to a pleasant fingering experience. It is worth making sure that the pace and pressure are suitable for the partner.
Fingerings for her. With fingering, you can stimulate different parts of the female genitals and the areas around them.
The vulva. Since the clitoris is considered "responsible" for female pleasure, it is often given little attention. You can start with a gentle, slow stimulation of the labia and the entrance to the vagina, and then gradually increase the touch.
The clitoris. There are significantly more nerve endings here than in the vaginal area, which makes this area the main object of stimulation. Try gentle circular movements — usually everyone likes them, although some women prefer a stronger impact.
Vagina. You can first insert one finger inside, then two or three, depending on how comfortable your partner is. Many people like the "come here" movement with their index finger. You can combine clitoral and vaginal stimulation: insert your index and middle fingers inside, and leave your thumb outside.
The anus. One finger is enough for this, it is more convenient to use the thumb or index finger. They can be guided around the anus or inserted into a shallow depth, about one phalanx, in smooth circular movements. You can move it in and out, simulating friction. The depth of penetration can be changed based on the reaction of the receiving party.
Fingerings for him. Many men are embarrassed to admit that they like anal stimulation. How to finger your boyfriend? No sudden movements or use of force. Ask about his desires, whispering various obscenities in his ear.But you can play with your fingers not only with his anus, but also caress his cock.Here are some manual finger techniques.
Finger rain. Male fingerings are naturally different from female ones. With the relaxed pads of the fingers of both hands, tapping alternately and lightly stimulate the penis shaft. This technique has a prolonging effect.
The corolla. Grasp the wedding furrow of the penis head with the fingertips of one hand and stimulate the penis head with shaking movements, which gives an exciting effect. Finger sex will give a man a pleasant pleasure.
Magic circles. Male perineal stimulation. We place the pad of our index finger in the middle of the perineum and stimulate this area with rubbing, kneading circular movements, as if we were drawing a circle clockwise, then return back — counterclockwise. It is better to do the technique using a lubricant. This finger massage causes a brighter orgasm, but with simultaneous stimulation of the penis.
Fingering is a low—risk sexual activity, but hygiene is important.
- Wash your hands. This should be done carefully, preferably with soap.
- Get a manicure. It is advisable to cut your nails short and file them so as not to injure the mucous membranes and skin of the genitals.
- Use protection. If you are having sex with an untested partner, you should use gloves or finger pads. They need to be changed when moving from self-stimulation to partner stimulation and back again. Protection is also needed when switching from anal fingering to vaginal, so as not to introduce bacteria into the vagina — each type of stimulation will require a separate fingertip.
- Don't spare the lube. This will help not to damage the delicate mucous membranes of the genitals and enhance pleasure. Lube is especially important for anal fingering.