10 rules of successful spanking: How to do it right

10 rules of successful spanking: How to do it right

Spanking is an art in which one of the partners "punishes" the other by slapping him on the buttocks with an open palm or a light object. This practice is one of the most popular and safest techniques in the BDSM world, ideal for beginners. On the one hand, it can be painful for a submissive (someone who gets spanked), but on the other hand, such pain often brings pleasure and opens up new facets of intimate relationships. If you decide to try spanking, follow these ten rules to make your interaction as interesting and safe as possible.

1. Consent is the foundation of the foundations

Before you start spanking, make sure that both partners agree to this game. Awareness and volunteerism are key elements of any BDSM practice. Both should clearly understand what awaits them.

2. Safe word — your insurance

Discuss the safe word in advance - this word should instantly stop the process if one of you feels uncomfortable. The ideal safe word should be short and unrelated to the sexual context. Try "red" or choose something more original, such as "carrot" or "basta".

3. Comfortable posture is the key to success

The most common spanking position is when the submissive lies with his stomach on the dominant's lap. However, you can experiment: for example, the dominant can get down on one knee, and the subordinate can bend over the other. The main thing is to determine the position in advance to avoid awkwardness.

44. Prepare your hands

There should be nothing superfluous on the dominant's hand — remove rings, watches and bracelets. This will help to avoid accidental injuries and make spanking more comfortable for the submissive. Don't forget to cut your nails as well.

5. Choose the right place for spanking

It is best to slap the lower or middle part of the buttocks. You can touch the hips a little, but the upper part of the buttocks and the kidney area are taboo.

6. Warming up is an important stage

Don't rush with strong punches. Start with strokes and light slaps, gradually increasing the intensity. This will help prepare the submissive's skin for stronger impacts.

7. Slaps should be sharp.

Give your slaps a whiplash effect: hit with the palm of your hand and immediately bounce off the skin. Do not linger on the buttocks to avoid unpleasant sensations for your partner.

8. Work in batches

After each set of slaps, pause to stroke and massage your partner's buttocks. This will allow the submissive to take a deep breath and feel the sensations better.

9. Watch your partner's reaction

The purpose of spanking is not to cause pain, but to give pleasure. Pay attention to the submissive's reaction: if he starts to squeeze his buttocks or tries to dodge, stop and switch to gentle stroking. Don't forget to ask how he feels.

By following these rules, you can make your spanking experience not only safe, but also incredibly exciting for both partners. The main thing is trust and mutual understanding!

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