"Я чувствую твои горячие губы", или как правильно вести секс - переписку
Sexual correspondence or sexting is an art that can turn an ordinary dialogue into a passionate game, ignite long–distance desire and strengthen an emotional connection. But how do you write so that your partner lights up from your messages?
Don't write anything that you wouldn't be able to say in real life. If you find it difficult to pronounce a phrase like, "I want you to take off my panties with your teeth, you are a terrible sexual monster," then you should not include this in an erotic message. The real you and the one who sends erotic messages to your man should be the same person, without sharp contrasts. Write the way you say it, only with more emotion and frankness.
Feel the difference between tickling your partner's nerves a little and making them feel embarrassed. This is similar to the difference between eroticism and pornography. For example, it's one thing to take a picture of your panties down to your ankles with the caption "I'm thinking of you," and quite another to take a picture of your hand in your intimate area with the same caption.
Don't show him something in the message that he hasn't seen in real life yet. For example, you should not spoil the impression of a chic set of expensive underwear by showing it for the first time on your phone screen.
Arouse all his senses. Don't just describe what you want to do together. Tell us about your feelings, how it looks and what kind of taste it has.
Come up with code words for the most explicit messages. This will help you solve two problems at once: first, the messages will look innocent if someone else looks over your shoulder. Secondly, you'll have a unique sexual language that only the two of you can understand - it adds intrigue.
Ask your partner questions to get them involved in the game. For example: "I'm wearing my cowboy boots today... How do you feel about the rider's pose?" After that, he will imagine you wearing these boots all day long. Only in boots.
Avoid vague and vague phrases: speak directly about your desires. Of course, the phrase "I miss you" sounds sweet and touching, but it's too weak for an erotic text. Better describe exactly how much you miss his hands stroking your breasts. And don't be afraid to delve into the details! I eat more tangible details, I eat more vivid imagination. The secret to successful correspondence is adaptability. Watch the reaction:
- Which phrases evoke the warmest response?
- What topics are bothering him/her?
- What pace is comfortable?
You can even ask directly: "What turns you on the most in such conversations?"
When people start sharing their desires and fantasies on the ground floor, to relax and have fun, sex moves to a new level.
You can not waste time on correspondence with us, but devote yourself entirely to sex.